Seven Secrets to Being the Leader Everyone Wants to Follow

In this changing, challenging, and competitive workplace, we\r cant overestimate the importance of good management.\r Good managers will consistently motivate you to perform at\r higher levels of productivity. Bad managers will drive you\r crazy and eventually out of the organization. Managers with\r poor skills will frequently produce the following results:

1. Decreased productivity

2. Increased turnover

3. Increased absences

4. Increased human resources mediation situations

5. Increased customer service complaints

The following are seven secrets to being the perfect leader\r everyone wants to work for:

1. Create a Vision

The best leaders not only assign tasks or monitor\r performance. They plan for the future and motivate others to\r see the same vision so they can all thrive to accomplish that\r vision.

Instead of dwelling on limited problems, the perfect leaders\r look at the big picture. They live the organizations mission\r and implement, motivate, and dedicate all their efforts to\r accomplishing the mission.

During hundreds of team building and leadership\r workshops, I have asked the following simple question:

What is your organizations mission statement?

If there are forty participants in the workshop, thirty-seven\r will look down at their desk, one participant will make a\r feeble attempt at reciting what he/she thinks is the mission\r statement, one participant will make a pretty good attempt\r and recite the first one or two sentences of the mission\r statement, and finally one student will volunteer to run to the\r office (or car) to grab a copy of the statement to bring back\r to the workshop. Out of the thousands of workshop\r participants I have asked this question, only three knew their\r mission statement word for word. The amazing part of this is\r that many of these workshop participants have been with\r their organization 5-10-20+ years and, they still didnt know\r their mission statement. So my question is this:

How do you lead your employees to accomplish your\r organizations mission if you (as a manager) dont know\r what the mission is?

The perfect leaders live, eat, sleep, and shower with their\r mission statement. They know exactly what the mission is\r and understand its importance to the team they lead and to\r the organization. Most importantly, they communicate the\r mission statement to their employees at meetings, coachings,\r feedback sessions, and even corrective actions. Their\r actions are related to accomplishing the goals of the mission\r statement and can communicate the vision of the\r organization.

Action Step Take the mission statement out of the dark\r corner in the office. Print the mission statement and its\r vision on the top of your meeting agenda and recite it at the\r beginning of the meeting. Then talk about how the\r employees are helping to realize the goals, values, and vision\r of the mission.

2. Understand employee needs

As the old saying goes, You cant please all of the people\r all of the time. However, the perfect leaders realize that to\r be effective, they must cater to the needs of most of the\r team. Good leaders realize that the work environment is not a\r popularity contest or, as I say, Leadership is not\r Pleasership. Perfect leaders treat all employees with respect\r and are consistent in their actions and words.

At the same time, they recognize the unique needs of their\r employees and use that knowledge for motivation to achieve\r a common goal.

3. Communicate concisely and clearly

Poor communication skills are probably the Number #1\r reason managers fail. If they cant talk to and connect with\r their employees, they are not serving the needs of the staff.

What is good communication? The following are some\r examples:

* Communicate job expectations and standards

* Give ongoing feedback to employees.

* Seek and acknowledge feedback from employees on\r decisions that effect them (and take the time to listen to\r them).

* Communicate the mission (see Secret #1) on an ongoing\r basis.

* Communicate bad news in an honest and timely manner.

* Communicate using language that shows a positive\r expectation.

* Communicate through a combination of methods: person-\r to-person, e-mail, phone, and meetings.

4. Find common ground

Some managers dont understand they are in the people\r business and lack the patience to work and develop their\r team members. I even had a supervisor during a coaching\r and mentoring workshop make the following statement to me\r at break:

If I had known that I had to communicate with my team, I\r would have never taken the job.

What did this person think? True leaders understand that\r their employees success is their success. They comprehend\r during this journey that some employees will need\r assistance, coachings, motivation, feedback, and discipline.\r Good leaders will work to find common ground with each\r staff member so that everyone wins. Perfect leaders will\r understand that some employees will need consistent\r managing, and others will need less managing; some\r employees need refocusing, while others will be very\r focused, etc. Perfect leaders recognize the need to find\r common ground with each person.

5. Take others to a new level

Perfect managers are concerned with their staffs\r professional advancement and do everything possible to\r help staff members develop their capabilities. These leaders\r see the employees for what they can become, not what they\r are now. These leaders actions might range from\r improving specific aspects of job performance, to delegating\r special assignments, to developing an action plan for\r promotions. Perfect leaders must have the ability to assess\r the strengths and weaknesses of employees and use that to\r coach for continuous improvement.

Ideally the basis for improvement combines the best interest\r of the organization and the employee. Many times I am\r brought into organizations to assist them with this need:

I have managers retiring, and we have no one to replace\r them.

These organizations have created a talent black hole,\r because they didnt implement a plan to help others\r improve and be ready to step up when needed. Remember,\r you can always replace a chair, a desk, a computer. But you\r cant always replace a talented employee if you dont have a\r plan in place to develop others to take their place when the\r time comes.

6. Believe in your staff

Recently, I was presenting the concerns of an employee\r workshop to management of an organization at their staff\r meeting. One manager looked at the report and questioned\r me as to whether the employees really mentioned the items in\r the report. I assured the manager the employees did. To\r that the manager answered in the meeting, This must mean\r we have smart employees. Little did this manager realize\r that he had a negative attitude toward his employees.\r Through his subconscious mind, he is showing his\r employees, through words and actions, that he doesnt\r believe in his staff.

Perfect leaders believe in the best qualities of their\r employees. They believe their employees are smart enough\r to handle tasks and find solutions to challenges if given the\r correct guidance and opportunity.

This comes with earned trust from past performances and the\r investment by the leaders to ongoing shared coachings and\r feedback to give the employees the experience and skills to\r succeed in the future.

7. Integrity is best

It is important that employees feel they can trust the\r managers words and actions. This means honesty, fairness,\r and consistency when interacting with employees. If\r employees share in private a confidential and sensitive\r subject with their managers\r in the morning, this must not be known throughout the\r organization that afternoon. Or, if managers promise to give\r employees an answer by the end of the day and never get\r back to the employees, the managers integrity is destroyed.

The best leaders realize that their word is their bond and that\r actions speak louder than words. Perfect leaders work at\r being honest, open, and reliable everyday.

Take the time starting today to apply these seven secrets;\r and you, too, can be a perfect leader.

Ed Sykes is a professional speaker, author, and leading\r expert in the areas of leadership, motivation, stress\r management, customer service, and team building. You can\r e-mail him at mailto:esykes@thesykesgrp.com, or call him at\r (757) 427-7032. Goto his web site,\r http://www.thesykesgrp.com, and signup for the newsletter,\r OnPoint, and receive the free ebook, \"Empowerment and\r Stress Secrets for the Busy Professional.\"

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